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There comes a point in some job seekers’ search when they’re delivered the unfathomable (and absolutely dreaded) news: Your unemployment has run out.
“Ma’am, I’m so sorry to tell you this, but your unemployment has run out,” she tells me over the phone, after I had to wait an upwards of an hour to talk to a person (and not a computer). My fear of this scenario actually coming true replays in my head from time-to-time.
“Ummm, what do you mean run out? I was told I had until September, and then come September, if I am still unemployed, I could probably re-file then.”
“Well whoever told you that was wrong. Check back with us though, we are waiting for Congress to pass something and then you might be able to get more money. But for now, just keep checking our website and watch the news. I’m so sorry.”
“whhhhh But I ehhhh don’t get it. whh whhhh Why? whhhh What about the Federal package?”
“You’re on the Federal. The money has run out. There’s none left. I’m so so sorry.”
“Yep. (audible gasp of air, holding back a tear) Thank You.”
Luckily, when my fear came to life and I had this very conversation with a woman at the Department of Unemployment Assistance yesterday, the information she had provided me with ended up being the wrong information. I do, in fact, have some time left to continue to claim benefits–but this, I didn’t find out for a few hours after talking with the woman, when I went to the Department for a further explanation and for any sort of available guidance, advice, and/or support. And I must admit, these were a few very rough hours–and put things into perspective. Things that are at the very foundation of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs.
What happens if I don’t find a job before unemployment is up? I refuse to settle for just any job–and stand by my previous posts explaining my search for a satisfying job (See Zen and the Art of Job Identification and I Don’t Really Like Sitting Still). But, let’s face it, I need some sort of monetary help to support my current life, to meet those needs at the base of Maslow’s pyramid: Food, shelter (my rent). Monetary support even plays a role in supporting my job search: I need to pay my Verizon bill to continue internet and telephone service, to communicate with potential employers, to search for jobs, and to brand myself; I need to pay my NStar bill to continue my electrical service, which powers my computer, my phone charger, and lights. I think we all get my drift here…
Financial advisors always say to have a back-up fund in the case of these kinds of emergencies–a “what if” account. I’ve seen a lot of articles with this sort of advice published across a spectrum of women’s mags these past couple of years. But what I haven’t found much of is articles giving advice to those who never had the chance–or the income–to actually save any money in this sort of “what if” saving account. “Everyone is broke when they’re 25,” someone once told me. “Living paycheck-to-paycheck,” I responded, “is a lot different from being broke and having nothing coming in.”
I’m savvy and I have complete confidence in myself, so if I ever really do find myself in this position, I know that I will figure something out (As Maslow would say, that is my Esteem). And I know that I have my family and friends there to support me–perhaps not monetarily but certainly for meeting certain Maslow needs (shelter, food, emotional support…). (And, according to Maslow, my family and friends are my Love/Belonging.) What would you do? How does one effectively balance her goal of career satisfaction (Self-Actualization, says Maslow) while worrying about her Physiological and Safety (both Maslow) needs?
As I continue to re-read one of my favorite and most influential books, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, I continue to find parallels between Robert M. Pirsig’s text and my search for a satisfying job for which I am passionate. Here’s the latest:
“This inner peace of min occurs on three levels of understanding… But value quietness, in which one has no wandering desires at all but simply performs the acts of his life without desire, that seems the hardest.”
And as I’ve said before, that’s one thing I don’t want in my job–or in my life. I don’t want to do my job Because I have to but Because I want to. And I certainly don’t want to just go through the motions.
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